Lenten Practices, Confession

While the saying, “confession is good for the soul” remains well known, the actual practice, in its various forms, is less well known. It is important to begin any consideration of confession by acknowledging that all Christian Churches, whether Protestant or Catholic, teach of the necessity of confession. Confession at its basic level is admitting to God you have erred, you’ve messed up, you’ve sinned. Considering Christian discipleship is about striving to Love God and Neighbor (Matthew 22:36-40) by aligning one’s whole life with the teachings of Jesus, it is not surprising that we often stumble along the way. I also stumbled earlier today while riding a unicycle and juggling four Bibles, three prayer books, two rosaries, and one Grizzly bear.

What all Christian Traditions do not agree about is sacramental confession. The centuries long practice of penitents (those with something to confess) of making a formal confession to a priest. Christian Traditions that practice sacramental confession (Roman Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican, some Lutherans), believe that God has blessed certain practices, as either instituted by Christ or developed by the Church in response to Christ. Practices that have proven, over long centuries, effective means by which human beings might receive and encounter the presence, forgiving power, and love of God. These practices are called sacraments. Besides confession, there is the sacrament of Holy Communion, Baptism, and Marriage, among others. 

Christian Churches that don’t believe in the seven traditional sacraments (often holding to just two: baptism and the Lord’s Supper), argue that these rituals were not instituted by God or that you do not need to go a human being (as helpful as that might be on occasion) to confess your sins. You can do that directly to God through Christ in the power of the Holy Spirit. Certainly, all Christian Churches, even those that require private confession, acknowledge you can confess directly to God. But some argue that sacramental confession is also necessary.  Why? One reason is the importance of dealing with failures and sins sooner, rather than later. Another reason is power of the sacrament to bring healing and hope to persons dealing with guilt

Yet another, is that these Churches tend to view the weekly reception of Holy Communion as a serious act. Thus, it is necessary to prepare. Not all Churches that make private confession available require it. In the Anglican Tradition, the view of private confession is, “All can, some should, none must.” As someone who has been a penitent and a priest, I can say that it is often powerful, often liberating and often healing for people. It can also be a useful practice to help support intentional and faithful living. If you know you are going to have to regularly make confession to another human being, that can impact how you live in subtle and significant ways. Ow! (Please excuse me, the Grizzly bear I was juggling earlier, is currently eating my leg.) 

The key is preparation and intention. Some Christians have had bad experiences with confession, because of an inattentive confessor (the priest hearing the confession). Others experienced it as a perfunctory ritual, something “you had to do” and thus did not experience it as an opportunity for soul cleaning, encouraging accountability, or gracious support of becoming the best person you were meant to be as God intended. Confession is about these larger purposes and not just “reporting about breaking rules.” Confession at its best is medicine for the soul. Confession is a way to sweep your conscience through the compassionate and convicting strength of the Holy Spirit. So, practice confession, daily in prayer, weekly in worship, and if your church offers it, sacramentally. 

Lenten Practices, Almsgiving

What are alms? Alms are a rare species of endangered leopards in the amazon (just kidding). Alms are food or money or assistance given to those in need. Almsgiving has always been part of the faith.  A concern to give to those in need. This practice encompasses both ideas of charity “let me give you a token of kindness or let me help you with a specific need in this immediate moment” and  ideas of justice: “not only should I help you in this immediate moment, but I should ask why you need help, and seek to address those root causes” and ideas between.

You can still find churches that have boxes labeled “For the Poor.” Some of you are familiar with the practice of mite boxes. Mite being an old translation for coins in the Bible. Some of your congregations do this now. A good practice. These are handed out at the start of Lent and individuals and families are encouraged to place them on their dining room tables. Change is collected throughout the season of Lent, for a specific cause, often associated with those in need (e.g. Heifer International, a Local Rescue Mission, spot removal surgery for Almcats , etc.).

Almsgiving can also be done directly to a person in need. This is part of the traditional practice. This can involve the giving of good, meeting a specific need, or financial assistance. Whether in person, through a mite box, or special project, even the small act of giving away our change can be a step toward developing greater awareness of need and greater generosity of spirit. Wrestling with how much we should give to the poor, as part of, or beyond a tithe, or a percentage of one’s income, forces us to look at our lives and deal with some tough questions.

How much do I really need? There are a lot of people out there whose basic needs are not being met. What is reasonable for me to keep and live on considering the profound suffering in the world? To often we ignore this entirely or make token gestures. While some are called to give away much of what they earn and have, the practice of almsgiving doesn’t require all of us to move this far and this fast. What this practice does do is invite us to think about Jesus’ Great commandment to “Love our neighbor” (Matthew 22:39) and take action to help those in need.

Lenten Practices, Fasting

Wednesdays and Fridays are the traditional days of fasting in the Christian faith. Fridays have received attention, both in Lent, and year around, with the well-known and widely practiced discipline of Roman Catholic and other Christians refraining from meat. Eastern Orthodox Christians are known for more stringent fasting during the season of Lent, sometimes encompassing a total fast from meats, various dairy products, and all water (except water imported from Greece or Russia). Yes, that was a joke (apologies to Orthodox readers). 

In Christian circles, East and West, fasting as a spiritual practice has probably waned in overall observance (less people are doing it), but I would suggest there is a resurgence of interest in and the practice of this ancient spiritual discipline (more people doing it intentionally, and not just because they “have” to). Fasting is often touted as having various health benefits. While this may be true, depending on how you fast, our concern here is fasting as spiritual practice. Isn’t fasting just about beating up ourselves by not eating rattlesnake steaks on Fridays? 

No. To be clear, the idea of Christian fasting has often meant partial fasting (full fasts being a matter of personal practice or limited to days like Ash Wednesday and Good Friday), such as abstaining from certain foods (e.g. meat) and eating two smaller meals and one regular meal on a given day. There is also the practice of fasting before receiving Holy Communion, especially on Sundays.  Ok. So, sometimes it’s a partial fast or abstaining from chocolate or coffee (Yes, really!) or whatever for the season of Lent. Why? Self-denial is about realizing what is important in life. 

Fasting reminds us how much we depend upon food, those who prepare it, those who grow it. Fasting reminds us of those who regularly go hungry and to take action. Fasting can be an opportunity to depend upon God more deeply. Fasting is a way of training our wills to choose the better instead of the merely convenient. Fasting can be painful, because it reveals our weaknesses. But such knowledge is essential if we want to grow in character. Also, in the Bible, fasting is often seen as a powerful complement to prayer. (For the record, there is no Friday of the year where I eat steaks made from rattlesnakes).

Lenten Practices, Ashes

“You are dust and to dust you shall return” shall be said over millions of Christians on Ash Wednesday as their foreheads are marked with ash by the sign of the cross. Many of these millions will receive peculiar looks by those who are not familiar with the practice. Even for those who recognize it as something Christians do to mark the beginning of the season of Lent, many may still wonder why? Why be marked with ashes? What’s the deal? In the Old Testament, the wearing of ashes was a sign of personal regret at sin, an expression of a desire to change and of humility. 

Ashes for Christians echo these Old Testament meanings, Lent is a season of intense spiritual training. A season when Christians are to take stock of their lives, express regret for their sins and failures and with God’s help seek to grow more fully into the kind of persons God would have them be. This is something Christians should do year-round but in Lent, it is intensified. Ashes are also a reminder of our mortality. You will die. I will die. There is no escaping this fact. Coming to terms with the brevity of this earthly life, sharpens the focus for how we should live.

By receiving ashes, you are recognizing one of the fundamental of human realities which must be grasped to live life well. Many of our societies are keen to ignore the reality of death, to pretend it doesn’t exist. This recognition of our morality on Ash Wednesday is not an exercise of doom and gloom, but of inspiration toward living life well with God, with others, and with all of creation. The Christian faith proclaims a life that is everlasting, but before we can cling to that hope, we must first come to terms with death. Receiving ashes is one way of doing this.