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Friday, December 23, 2016

Imagine Christmas without Carols

Imagine Christmas without carols. Imagine Christmas without packages wrapped with care (and torn open with glee). Imagine Christmas without commercialization. Imagine December was merely a count down from one calendar year to the next. No Advent. No holiday parties and no sugar cookies (I know…sugar cookies are yum). No “Wonderful Life” reruns and no ghosts of Christmas past for Scrooge or anyone else. No shepherds sporting bathrobes or angels cardboard wings. No hustle and bustle and running crazy to get the latest card sent off.

Instead, imagine a country occupied by a foreign power. Instead, imagine a local scandal involving a teenage girl who isn’t old enough to drive (a camel maybe, but not a car) and her respectable, righteous even, fiancĂ©e. Imagine, the shame. Imagine the surprise when she is not dismissed quietly, but aforementioned boyfriend stays the course, solid as the timber he plies for a trade. Imagine the panic as labor pains increase along with doors slammed shut, refusing welcome. Imagine the relief at entry, barn animals or not. Imagine the water breaking.

Imagine the mystery of all things, the creator of all that is, nurtured, nestled, in that young womb for nine months, submitting to the same story of every human come before. Imagine the emergence of beautiful new life: blood, fluid, and labored breaths; the young mother exercising a form of workmanship ancient and fresh, producing art which lives and loves. Imagine the impossibility made possible, of the creature caressing the creator to her breast. Imagine the cry of Life itself, Divinity itself, joining with baby’s breathe, hastening the redemption of all.

Imagine this tiny breath expanding from that straw stable to enveloping all that was and will be. A breath that we inhale by faith. A breath we inhale by virtue of having lungs and breathing air. A life we partake in by virtue of every cell in our body and every spiritual molecule in our soul. Imagine this and you will have come close to the Kingdom. Imagine this and you will tremble with the audacity of it all. You will slam your Christmas dinner table with fists of epiphany. You will have seen through the mirror dim, the true message of Christmas, given in a single name:

Emmanuel.

Saturday, March 26, 2016

He is Risen!


Easter is unusually early this year. Lent started in the darkness of the winter and while in in the global north Easter has long been tied to spring, it’s still early enough that physical days of shadow and snow may linger. Yet, after 2000 years what more is there to say? Sermons galore, songs abounding, poems piling high, and liturgies around the world resounding with the cry, “Alleluia the Lord is Risen. The Lord is risen indeed, alleluia!”

There alone may be enough to be said. The proclamation of the Resurrection message has continued over twenty centuries through hell and high water, through towers falling, through economies booming, through endless paperwork, through endless controversial elections of the moment, and through the whispers of lovers and the laughter of children. In Saint John’s account of Easter morning Mary Magdalene is asked by Jesus (who she thinks is the gardener), “why are you weeping?” (John 20:15).  

It’s a good question. Not only for Mary, but for us. Mary weeps because she has lost her Lord, because the great movement of hope that was rising in her time had been nailed to a cross, robbed of all breath and taken lifeless to the tomb. All this calls for tears, but to add insult to injury, it seems the body has been stolen. Many of us too have lost our Lord, or had our hopes nailed to a cross of cruelty or terrible circumstance. Many of us have felt robbed of all breath, walked lifeless through life’s thousand little cuts and sat tomb-like contemplating our future.

Easter is easily mistaken as an occasion for smiles, cute bunnies, and new dresses. These have their place, but as happy little trinkets alongside the vast red canvas of the world’s history and our personal histories of blood and sorrow. Easter is a time to weep. To weep over the losses of life for ourselves, those we love, and the world. But it is also a time to tune our spiritual ear to the lyrical delight of hearing our names uttered by the risen Lord. When Jesus said, “Mary” she recognized him instantly and then -- I suggest -- she did not stop weeping but her tears of sorrow turned to tears of joy (John 16:20). This Easter, may yours and mine do the same.

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Fifty Days of Forgiveness


Funny Friar Ministries is challenging you and everyone across the world to move toward forgiveness during the fifty days of the challenge, Easter Sunday (3/27) - Pentecost Sunday (5/15). To help Funny Friar Ministries will be sharing quotes, prayers, and links related to forgiveness on Facebook and making available the following sermons.

April 03: Forgiving Others
April 10: Forgiving Yourself
April 17: Forgiving God

It's time to forgive!

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Sermons: Considerations for Pew Sitters

In today’s media age, we are constantly bombarded with messages, whether on TV, via our hand-held device or computer, and through a continual onslaught of traditional in-print advertizing. This has caused all of us to be rather selective in our attentions, forcing new-casters and product peddlers to coat their pitches with entertaining stories, visual pleasantries and a pretended informality.

Then we find ourselves on a Sunday morning listening to a sermon. Today’s preachers are forced to compete (at least by subconscious comparison) with talk show hosts, comedians and some of the country’s most creative and talented (and often heretical) preachers, otherwise known as televangelists. Certainly, all of these cultural considerations should demand that preachers take their task even more seriously and work both on improving their content and how they deliver it.
Yet, as Christians, we each have a responsibility to make the most of every sermon we hear. The sermon is an opportunity to explore the themes of Scripture more deeply; to be challenged and comforted by God’s Word, and just maybe, to hear specific instructions for our life by the power of the Holy Spirit. Here are eight suggestions for how you can make the most of every sermon you hear.
First, get a good night’s sleep. It is far easier to focus on the liturgy and to worship our Lord after having had enough rest. Of course, there will be times when we come half-awake to worship merely out of habit and commitment and this is a good thing, but we will have far more ability to take in the sermon and to be alert for the Holy Spirit if we are wide awake.
Second, arrive early and settle in. If you’re in the parenting stage of life arriving early and settling in will be more difficult, though not always impossible. Being there early allows you to breathe and push aside distracting thoughts. When we come late or barely on time it often takes half the service (including the sermon!) for us to clear our minds and give our full attention to what is happening in the liturgy.
Third, review the Scripture readings ahead of time. Some people do this as a personal practice on the Saturday night before worship. This isn’t a bad idea and could be a way for individuals or families to get ready for Sunday worship. More people do this prior to the service which highlights the importance of arriving early.
Fourth, pray. Prayer could be listed along with every other suggestion I’m making in this article. Pray over the readings, pray that you will be awake, pray that God will speak through the preacher to you, and the entire congregation. Pray after the sermon that God would give you the strength to live out its message.
Fifth, stay focused during the sermon. This, as most worshippers know, is not as easy as it sounds. Make an intentional choice not to look at the person walking in or to stare at the baby in the pew ahead of you who is playing with her mother. Depending on your day and how things are going, it’s also easy to just fade away into distant thought or into a sort of trance. Even if the preacher is not engaging, you have a responsibility to listen and hear what God might be saying.  
Sixth, talk about the sermon afterwards. This is a good habit to cultivate. Spouses and family members can do this on the ride home, as can friends out a lunch after worship. Knowing you are going to have to talk about the sermon with someone will help your retention considerably. In addition, these sorts of conversations can be spiritually uplifting in themselves and often your conversation partner will have been moved by portions of the sermon you weren’t.
Seventh, on occasion follow up with the preacher about the sermon. Preachers usually receive little meaningful feedback about the sermons they deliver. Following up with the preacher to ask a question or make a comment will help you to digest God’s Word more easily. In addition, you may provide some much needed encouragement to a preacher who is wondering why he or she bothers to spend so much time in preparing sermons that no one responds to.
Eighth, review the sermon later in the week. This would be a good discipline to do mid-week to check how much you remember and more importantly, how well you are living out the message of the sermon in your daily life. You could review your sermon notes (yes some people take these!) or listen to the sermon again via a podcast or a CD made available by the parish. Certainly, a written manuscript would also be helpful, though most sermons are designed to be heard rather than to be read.
By recognizing the importance of the Word of God and by implementing one or more of these suggestions you will be more likely to fulfill the Anglican vision for engagement with Holy Scripture: “Blessed Lord, who caused all Holy Scriptures to be written for our learning: Grant us so to hear them, read, mark, learn, and inwardly digest them, that we may embrace and ever hold fast the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have given us in our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen“(BCP, 236). 
 



Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Don't Miss Out on Lent

Missing out, Lent? Yes. Lent is the forty day season before Easter (it starts next week on March 5). Lent is a heavy-weight season of the Christian year full of richness, potential for encounter with God, and life impact. Unfortunately, Lent is usually taken – if at all – as a light-weight season for giving up chocolate, going to an extra worship service or two and collecting loose change for some good cause. These are all fine things, but taken by themselves they miss the flight on what Lent is intended to be all about.

Life is a journey; clichĂ©, but undeniably true. Likewise, Christianity is meant to be journey. Christianity is not meant to be an event, but a life. We’re all human; we all bleed; we all laugh; we all cry; and we all dream. Christianity is a way of becoming more authentically human; tapping into all the wonders of life, from Sunday symphonies to Wednesday blues and Saturday rock and roll. The seasons of the Church Year are designed to help us become better at being human; better at savoring ordinary joys, like a good cup of tea; weathering the horrible sorrows, like the loss of a loved one. How? By helping us to live more intentionally and to give more attention not only to our ever-present to-do lists, but to the spaces in our lives we ignore, where strangely and scarily, God is often to be found.  
Lent is designed to do this by challenging us to take our spiritual lives more seriously. To set aside forty days to ponder our relationship with God and God’s universe, God and God’s people, and God and our innermost selves. The classic Biblical image for Lent is Jesus’ forty days and nights of temptation in the desert (Matthew 4:1-11); while in the desert, Jesus had plenty of time to ponder life’s mysteries; to pray, to fast, and to be tested. During Lent, the Church invites us to take on the spiritual practices of silence, Scripture reading, and fasting in order to grow into more authentic human beings.
If we miss out on Lent, we might miss out on being our very selves as God intended us to be. If we miss out on Lent, we may become less human, not more. I encourage you to take advantage of Lent this year. Make it a heavy-weight season, not a light-weight season. Don’t miss the flight that is Lent; if you do, you’ll miss out on going to some transforming places.  

Archbishop Rowan Williams On Lent
Two Minute Crash Course on Lent
Observing Lent as a Family



Friday, November 29, 2013

Happy New Year!


Advent, which marks the beginning of the Christian year, begins this Sunday, December 1. Advent is one of the more important seasons of the Christian year (also called the liturgical year), for a number of reasons, not least of which is that it is the first. In popular imagination, the Christian year is often reduced to a color coding device for determining what colors are used on the altar and worn by the priests. This reduction is a tragic one. The Christian year with its flow of feasts and fasts, seasons and observances, is primarily meant to be celebrated at home, within the ordinary fabric of our lives. I dare to say that a renewal of the Christian year in our homes would result in a renewal of Christianity in North America. We are rapidly moving further and further into a post-Christian world. Fewer and fewer people are exposed to the Church and those that are (especially young people) tend not to return after leaving home. Instead of making Christianity a one-hour sport on Sundays, the observance of the Christian year takes the faith and weaves it within the regular ups and downs of family life. Instead of “Church” and “God” being something outside of the family on Sundays, spirituality becomes woven into the very fabric of family life and day to day living. The Christian year can and should be celebrated not just by families, but by single people in their homes and in their workplaces. If you want your faith to be more meaningful; if you want greater spiritual richness and depth in your daily living; then I encourage you to start observing the Christian year at home. Advent starts Sunday, make your plans now!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Making the Most of Holy Week



Rowan Williams, who recently retired as Archbishop of Canterbury, once said, “In all sorts of ways, Holy Week really is the most important week in the Christian year, because it’s a week when we discover, in a way we don’t do at any other time,  just who we are and just who God is.” Williams’ concise statement captures the heart of the mystery of Holy Week, but sadly, for many people, it’s a mystery left in the dark and scarcely observed.
Many Christians do attend some or all of the services of Holy Week and this is a good thing, but attendance at divine worship alone will not make the most of these seven days. The Christian year with its celebrations and fasts is meant to be observed not only corporately (for an hour on Sunday or a couple of extra hours during Holy Week), but daily, personally, and with one’s friends and family.
 Finding meaningful ways to observe Holy Week, in addition to attending the appointed services, especially the great three days of Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday, will go a long way in unveiling the power and glory of Easter to you, your friends, and family.
Below are a number of ideas for observing Holy Week, which begins this Sunday (March 24).  You don’t need to do everything that’s listed, just select one or two practices per day, and also feel free to create your own. In the comments section feel free to share how you’ve observed Holy Week in the past or what ideas you have for observing it this year.  Some of the practices go together (i.e. the Bible reading suggestions), but most stand alone (I have a pdf version of this, slightly modified, if  you'd like one just e-mail me.)
 
Palm Sunday
-          Do something fun (i.e. go out to eat, go to the movies, etc.) in celebration and remembrance of Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
-          Begin reading the shortest of the four Gospels, Mark chapters 1-2
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week and/or Easter service
-          Attend a Palm Sunday service

Holy Monday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV, cursing, coffee, or _____
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 3-4
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week service and/or Easter service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Your idea _____________________________________________

Holy Tuesday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV, cursing, coffee, or  _____
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 5-6
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week service and/or Easter service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Your idea _____________________________________________

Spy Wednesday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV, cursing, coffee, or  _____
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 6-7
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week service and/or Easter service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Confess your sins to a priest or pastor
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
 
Maundy Thursday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV, cursing, coffee, or  _____
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 8-10
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week service and/or Easter service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Confess your sins to a priest or pastor
-          Minimize and/or eliminate the use of lights, phone, computers, technology in remembrance of Jesus’ betrayal and death when “the light of the world” was hidden from view
-          Take a long walk by yourself, with your family or friends to ponder Jesus’ own long walk to Calvary and to his death
-          Do the practice above but carry a cross with you  
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
-          Attend a Maundy Thursday service

Good Friday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV, cursing, coffee, or  _____
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 11-13
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Invite someone to join you for a Holy Week service and/or Easter service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Confess your sins to a priest or pastor
-          Minimize and/or eliminate the use of lights, phone, computers, technology in remembrance of Jesus’ betrayal and death when “the light of the world” was hidden from view
-          Take a long walk by yourself, with your family or friends to ponder Jesus’ own long walk to Calvary and to his death
-          Do the practice above but carry a cross with you
-          Dress in black to remember Jesus’ death
-          Don’t socialize or “go out” instead stay home and remember what Jesus did for you
-          Watch the Passion of the Christ or similar film about the life of Jesus    
-          Go to a Passion Play
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
-          Attend a Good Friday service

Holy Saturday
-          Fast or partially fast from meat, texting, TV,  cursing, coffee, or  _____
-          Continue reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 13-15
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Invite someone to join you for an Easter Service
-          Spend five or more minutes in silence, pondering God’s presence
-          Take a long walk by yourself, with your family or friends to ponder Jesus’ own long walk to Calvary and to his death
-          Do the practice above but carry a cross with you  
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
-          Talk about faith, God, life, and spirituality with a friend or family member
-          Minimize and/or eliminate the use of lights, phone, computers, technology in remembrance of Jesus’ betrayal and death when “the light of the world” was hidden from view
-          Confess your sins to a priest or pastor
-       Don’t socialize or “go out” instead stay home and remember what Jesus did for you
-          Watch the Passion of the Christ or similar film about the life of Jesus    
-          Go to a Passion Play
-          Attend a Holy Saturday or Easter Vigil service

Easter Sunday

-          Finish reading Mark’s Gospel, chapter 16
-          Say grace at one or more meals
-          Throw a party! Invite friends, family, and others to celebrate the Resurrection!
-          Your idea _____________________________________________
-          Attend an Easter service